In a time when headlines are often dominated by uncertainty across the globe, one small-town cafe in Okmulgee is choosing a different focus – one rooted in gratitude, unity and remembrance.
At Kirby’s Cafe, owner Belinda Van Buskirk is leading a heartfelt community effort to recognize those who have served in the United States military. What began as a simple idea has quickly grown into a powerful tribute known as the “Wall of Honor,” a living display dedicated to veterans and active-duty service members from all branches.
“Just a little thank you to our military,” Van Buskirk shared – a sentiment that has now taken on a life of its own.
— A Wall That Tells Stories
Inside the cafe, the Wall of Honor is steadily filling with photographs, newspaper clippings, and personal mementos – each one representing a life of service. The images come from across generations: young men and women currently serving, veterans who returned home decades ago, and even those who are no longer with us.
And for Van Buskirk, every single one matters equally.
“It doesn’t matter if they’re current or former. It doesn’t matter what branch. It doesn’t matter if they’re gone or alive,” she said. “Because they’re the reason we get to come in and sit down and eat with our family.”
That simple, powerful message is at the heart of the project.
— A Community Effort
The response from the Okmulgee community has been overwhelming.
Families have begun submitting photos of loved ones – fathers, mothers, sons, daughters, grandparents and friends – each with their own story. Some are formal portraits in uniform; others are candid snapshots that capture a moment in time during service.
Van Buskirk has made the process simple and accessible: community members can bring photos into the cafe or simply text them to be printed and displayed.
“Our goal is to fill the wall,” she said.
That goal is quickly becoming a reality, as more and more submissions arrive daily. — Honoring the Quiet Heroes One of the most meaningful aspects of the Wall of Honor is the recognition of those who rarely seek it.
Many veterans, Van Buskirk noted, don’t talk about their service. Some are regular customers at the cafe – people who quietly come in for a meal, never drawing attention to their past.
“You wouldn’t know that’s him,” she said of one daily visitor. “They don’t want any glory for themselves … they did what they did because they love the country.”
The wall changes that – giving those individuals a place where their service is acknowledged and appreciated, even if they never ask for it.
What makes the Wall of Honor especially unique is its authenticity.
Not every photo is perfect. Some are grainy. Others are informal or include moments of everyday life during deployment. But Van Buskirk insists that’s exactly what makes them meaningful.
“That’s real,” she said of one submitted photo. “That’s you … you had a life while you were over there serving for us.”
Each image becomes more than just a picture – it becomes a glimpse into a story, a sacrifice, and a life lived in service to others.
The project is also a reminder of something many may take for granted: the freedoms enjoyed every day.
“It’s because of them,” Van Buskirk emphasized – a simple statement that resonates deeply throughout the cafe.
In a world where global tensions and uncertainties continue to grow, the Wall of Honor stands as a local expression of appreciation and support for those who serve.
Kirby’s Cafe is continuing to invite the public to take part in this growing tribute.
Anyone with a connection to the military – whether it’s a personal service record or that of a loved one – is encouraged to submit a photo or clipping. There are no restrictions on branch, era, or background.
Past, present, and future service members are all welcome.
Photos can be dropped off at the cafe or texted directly to be included or text to her at 979-3246935. The goal is not just to fill a wall, but to create a space where stories of service are remembered and shared.
As the Wall of Honor continues to grow, it has become more than just a display – it has become a gathering point.
Customers pause to look, to reflect, and sometimes to find a familiar face. Conversations begin. Stories are shared. Connections are made.
In that sense, the wall is doing exactly what it was intended to do: bringing people together through a shared sense of gratitude.
While the project may have started as “just a little thank you,” it has evolved into something far greater – a lasting tribute to those who have served and continue to serve.
And in a small cafe in Okmulgee, that gratitude is now visible for all to see.
As Van Buskirk puts it best: “Thank you for your service and God bless.”