Rocket science isn’t required for this brand of boot camp. Nor is youthful age! A quiet army of apprentices to Jesus (millions of ordinary people dotting our planet) enter most mornings in solemn resolve. Taking up practices that, bit by bit, lead to character and behavior change, a deepening joy ensues.
These people are not hero saints. They do strive to keep a clear goal in mind … Becoming like their Lord. Taking in an ancient and prayer (portions of which may provoke a smile) helps underscore the ‘training’ connection.
— Growing Older
Lord, You know better than I myself that I am growing older and will someday be old.
Keep me from the fatal habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion.
Release me from craving to straighten out everybody’s affairs. Make me thoughtful but not moody; helpful but not bossy. With my vast store of wisdom, it seems a pity not to use it all; but You know, Lord, that I want a few friends at the end. Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details; give me wings to get to the point. Seal my lips on my aches and pains; they are increasing, and love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the years go by. I dare not ask for improved memory, but for a growing humility and a lessening cock-sureness when my memory seems to clash with the memories of others.
Teach me the glorious lesson that occasionally I may be mistaken.
Keep me reasonably sweet, for a sour old person is one of the crowning works of the devil.
Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places and talents in unexpected people; and give, O Lord, the grace to tell them so. Amen.
– The old prayer (some of it might have provoked a smile) was penned by a Carmelite nun of the 16th century.* New habits can replace old ones bringing a person to noticeable transformation. Change into Christlikeness beautifully grows when habits that were found in the routine life of Jesus becomes the disciple’s aim and practice. When entered into in prayer and reliance upon the Holy Spirit.
Do I often measure myself as the brightest bulb in the room? Do I have an inflated sense of self-importance? Am I given to talking too long and too much? Am I stingy with complements? Do others possibly view me as the whiner, the grump?
What are some things about yourself – attitudes, behaviors, moods that could do with some renovation? If your list, like mine, is long, don’t despair. Habits are replaceable. The Spirit is present to lend aid.
— *Teresa of Avila
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