Everyone makes mistakes or fails in their attempts to grow and meet the challenges of daily life. Without these miscues little would be learned, and growth as a person would be limited. In short, failure is a key ingredient for success and should be looked at as a resource for moving forward, not a behavior to be despised. This easily happens in the emotional turmoil of mourning the death of a loved one. Here are the negative repeats I see most often and what you can do to move past them.