Planning a funeral can be an overwhelming and emotional process. However, preplanning your own funeral or that of a loved one can help alleviate stress during a difficult time. Here are some helpful tips to guide you through the preplanning process.
— Document Your Preferences
Clearly document your funeral preferences to ensure they are followed. Consider including:
• Type of Service: Specify whether you prefer a religious, secular, or themed service.
• Location: Indicate where you would like the service to take place.
• Personal Touches: Detail any specific readings, music, or personal items you wish to include.
• Attendees: List any specific individuals or groups you wish to be notified or invited to the service.
• Eulogy and Speakers: Identify who you would like to deliver the eulogy or speak during the service, if applicable.
• Final Resting Place: Specify your choice of burial or cremation and, if applicable, the cemetery or location where you wish to be interred or scattered.
• Obituary Details: Provide information you would like included in your obituary, such as key life achievements, family mentions and any special messages.
• Charitable Donations: If you prefer donations to a charity in lieu of flowers, outline your chosen organizations.
By documenting these preferences, you help guide your loved ones in honoring your wishes, ensuring a ceremony that truly reflects your life and values.